The buzz phrase of the moment seems to be surrounding our understanding or lack of understanding of “self love, thus unconditional love.”  The lack of self-awareness and unconditional love is what is lacking in this world, often making it a tangled mess of drama and chaos.  Why is that?  What causes humans as a function of being human to be so dysfunctional as a general rule? 

 We tend to spend our whole lives in search of something, and often we do not even know what that “something is”.  It leaves us in a perpetual state of “Lack.” That lack presents itself as scarcity of mindfulness, consciousness, and awareness. It shows up as anger, grief, shame, fear, and a myriad of other conditions we do not like to acknowledge.  In the end, it causes humans to be out of balance in time and space, and with all nature. Like an old pinball machine that “TILTS”, the human is much the same. 

 Have you ever noticed that every single creature and plant; everything in nature is balanced and in harmony with everything else except man? We are the aliens here. Whether we are from here or not (and that debate is for another day), whether we are God’s children made in his image, some alien civilization’s giant social science experiment or a colossal accident…or all three, my job is to help people regain their balance in time and space, and with all nature so we can lead better, healthier, more fulfilled lives.

 Each human has a frequency blueprint. That blueprint is in part transgenerational by nature. It is who we are as beings. When a human is assaulted either physically, emotionally, mentally or spiritually, it shows up in a variety of ways too long to mention here. The scar it leaves is labeled trauma. If the trauma is not able to dissolve or heal properly it blocks movement of energy and knocks the human off balance. It changes neurological patterning like a fragmented computer program or virus and creates havoc inside and out. 

How I have come to understand this is yet another long conversation. But in the end, it is the energy that must move to clear the path for a human to get back into its original homeostasis where we can feel happy, at peace, or at least not miserable.  

 It is proven that trauma lives in the cells long after the initial assault happened. Often the things you feel like depression, anxiety, or fear are not even yours. The term used to describe this condition is transgenerational trauma. This trauma patterning becomes part of an ancestor’s DNA and is passed down to you. Trauma you carry is often passed down to your kids and so on. Nature (DNA) + Nurture (your environmental conditions) = WHO YOU ARE. 

 Most humans have no earthly idea what they feel or why they feel it. For instance, you have very definite ideas about those people in your life that you are attracted to and those you are repulsed by. Even the food choices you make are no accident.     

Mine is a very helpful but confusing gift to have. Since you are reading this, I know you have stumbled onto my website.  That is no accident either.  Go back and read the section about trauma Lab and EVOX.  It may help you understand. Why am I telling you all of this?  Because, whether I came by it naturally, through years of my own traumatic experiences, through decades of education and practical experience, a combination or something else, I can read the pain you are in and why. The answers you are looking for can be found. Yes. They really can. And I can help you find them. I can tell you this. You won’t find your answers out there. You have them already. But instead of aimlessly stumbling through life or going the traditional therapy route that can take years and years of dedicated practice in hopes you might find what you are looking for, allow me to be your guide to quickly unravel what keeps you stuck. Let me help.