Circular Dating
Circular Dating: How to Use it to Get the Love and Relationship You Want
As a Rori Raye certified coach, I often suggest that my clients try Circular Dating. As soon as the word DATE leaves my lips, I hear screams and protests:
"Are you kidding me? I am not going to start dating! I am in a relationship! I'm trying to save it not blow it up!"
"That would be cheating!"
Or
"I hate dating. I hate the whole concept of dating and I can't believe knowing my situation that you of all people would suggest it to me!"
OK already!! I've heard every excuse you can come up with and more and I am here to tell you that Circular Dating (CD) is one of the most useful and powerful concepts and tools that Rori has developed. When I first heard the concept, I balked too. The name itself sounds scary...SO...if the name sounds scary or conjures up all kinds of feelings and emotions in you... do this.
Say the term Circular Dating to yourself and tell yourself you are going to do it. Then stop, wait, look, and listen for exactly what comes up in your mind and body.
Write it down. Don't hold back! Let 'Er Rip!
For those of you who are just plain curious, let's move on. Oh yeah, and if you're one of the complainers right now and want to dive headfirst into a dry swimming pool rather than continue on...those of you who just finished your list of reasons why Circular Dating is the dreaded enemy: you don't get a pass. Come along too!
Until I shut my mouth, opened my mind, and really got curious as to what it is, and more importantly, why it works so well, I was a skeptic.
When it was first suggested to me, I rolled my eyes and sat on the other side of the computer screen and hoped she missed my rather unflattering gesture. And, consummate pro that I am...I politely let Rori speak.
About 2 minutes into Rori's explanation, a bomb went off in my head. WOW! My brain snapped to attention. I realized that "Whispering" and Circular Dating are very much the same! The concepts fit seamlessly together. Once I made that important connection, it became an entirely different ball of wax. I knew she was right on the money. Suddenly, I wanted to hear more. I had a million questions. I saw possibilities where I saw only drudgery before. It became exciting and fun and I couldn't wait to try it out.
FAQ
What exactly is Circular Dating?
Circular Dating is an easy and fun way for you to explore the way you connect and communicate with others and how you react to them and how they react to you given a set of parameters. It is a great way to discover new and old parts of yourself; your tendencies, patterns, and beliefs. It is a way for you to safely flirt with the world. It is free therapy. Unless you are single and want to take Circular Dating into the world of dating and incorporate it into your dating practice (highly recommended). It is gentle, and a foolproof road leading straight to YOU.
It is a very powerful self-discovery journey that will have you laughing, crying, and everything in between. And in the end, you will have found the secret to a successful relationship and love.
What you need to understand here is that you cannot, and will not, experience the whole of what a relationship with with another or love has to offer you until you discover it first. How exciting is that?
Now, I can hear your mind yelling at me again, "OMG Katelyn, I am 45 or 60 or 70 even—I think that by now I know myself pretty well...It all sounds very new-age-y and too good to be true."
Ok, fine. I will now was you to think about your love life as it is now, and I will ask as Dr. Phil often asks: "And how's THAT working for you?"
Whether you are single or in a relationship, you can circular date anywhere and with anyone. Although having a man in the picture is recommended, it is not mandatory.
What ISN'T Circular Dating?
It's not cheating on your boyfriend or partner. It's not manipulative. It requires no commitment from you to anyone—and the beauty is that you can practice CD anywhere, with anyone, and it costs nothing! You don't need expensive gear or tools. All you need is a bit of imagination, a little curiosity, a thimble full of courage, and a few simple and easy-to-learn techniques.
What do I get out of practicing Circular Dating?
You get to learn the secret to a better you. You get to practice how to speak to men and others in a way that excites them, gains their attention, and focus & attracts them to you. You get to change your vibe to one that effortlessly works in the world and you get to have a little fun and create a little excitement in the process.
For more on Circular Dating, please contact me! I'd love to get you started on this journey.