If you are familiar with my tools and methods, you know how much I want all of you to have the love and relationship you dream of.

It is my passion and inspiration for my work.

It is my life goal.

And, if you know me, you know it IS possible to have great love that lasts whether you are single right now or in a long-term relationship—my methods work!

But, you will make it very hard for yourself if you do this one thing…can you guess what it is?

Don't scroll away, because this is a tool I teach my clients—but I’m going to give it to you right now, right here, for FREE.

I call it Leaning Forward. Leaning Forward is one of the mistakes many women make when they make it too easy for their man. Whether you have just met him or have been married for years, your man will retreat, close down, go into his cave…if you lean too far into your relationship.

What does it look like when you lean forward in your relationship? You focus all your attention on him!

You meet a man, you’re attracted to him. You might even think he could be “the one” or “marriage material.” Then what do you do? You spring into action and make it known to him that you really like him. And, how do you do it?

You try to innocently run into him at the market, gym, or places you know he likes to go. You might offer to cook for him or play tennis with him. You might even have sex with him if you think that’s what might get you closer to him.

You text him, you email him, call him…without provocation. It looks like this: “Hey, haven’t heard from you in a while, just wanted to see how you were doing.” Or, “I’m worried, you haven’t been to the gym for 2 weeks!” Or, “Are we on for Saturday night? Just wanted to firm up our plans.”

Now, here’s the Big Silent Killer. If you do this, you will lose!

You think about him all the time!

Instead of focusing on you and what makes you happy, you spend all of your waking hours focused on him. You get so focused, you don’t even realize when he stops showing up or retreats. You miss what is really happening! You are leaning forward and chasing him. You are imagining a relationship that does not exist! You are in an imaginary relationship. Even if you are married, the relationship you think you are in might not be the one you are really in.

You aren’t alone. We have all done it, but, by talking about it right now, you can begin to stop the behavior.

TIP: Imagine your relationship as a bubble with both of you in it. You are floating high above the ground. If you lean too far forward, your man has no choice but to lean back. The further you lean in, the more he must lean out. When he leans too far back, he breaks the bubble and you both plummet to the ground. But, when you lean back just right, his interest is peaked and what does he do? You guessed it! He leans forward. What do you do then? You stay steady and receive what he has to offer. If you immediately try to lean in again, you break the bubble.

So, why do we do all this? Why do we make it so easy on men and make the same mistakes over and over—the ones that cause a man to lose interest? We are all different and there are as many reasons, but most often, it is about not valuing yourself. A man will never be able to value you until you do.

And it isn’t just about the man. It’s about the whole world and your whole life. Your entire life will change once you learn to value you.

To learn more about whispering love and how to have the life you want and deserve, contact me below. BUT FIRST, write down 10 things you value about you and your life and share it with me. Now go and get started! Can't wait to hear all your responses 💖

Love in Whispers, 

Katelyn