Focused practice to successfully navigate a toxic relationship, or a relationship with a narcissist or narcissistic abuser
Living with an abuser is like stumbling upon a beautiful meadow and deciding this is it, this is my perfect home... only to discover you’ve built your new life above a minefield. It's hard to accept this place of beauty, your home, can be so riddled with danger. What you need to accept is that the beautiful meadow is a lie, a fantasy, and no matter how thoughtfully you navigate it, the next explosion is inevitable.
Verbal abuse, emotional abuse, and mental abuse are real, and they’re often the go-to tactic for many abusers because they leave no physical trace. This type of abuse is so insidious it makes you question whether the abuse even happened.
But just because you can’t be sure of the abuse doesn’t mean it isn’t harming you immensely. And though you may feel alone, you absolutely are not. I developed this Minefield Survival Program specifically for people who are in your situation and have helped many navigate toxic and emotionally abusive relationships.
If you have suffered at the hands of a narcissistic abuser, even if you merely suspect you are in such a relationship, this coaching was made for you. I have extensive experience in offering help, recovery, and healing from toxic partners and narcissistic abuse in relationships.
What is THE MINEFIELD SURVIVAL PROGRAM?
In this self-focused program, you will learn:
How to identify what’s real and what’s not. People in emotionally abusive relationships question their own feelings and experiences. This is the result of a special brand of manipulation used by abusers, especially narcissists, on sane and intelligent people like yourself. You are not crazy. Learn how to tap into your truth and dismiss the rest.
Why you’re in your present situation. It’s true that we create our own reality. But this creation is often the product of energies that although very real, we are not conscious of. I will coach you to become cognizant of your energetic frequencies, at which point you can decide what to keep (what serves you) and what to discard (what doesn’t).
How to gain (or regain) control of you. You’ll learn you cannot change your narcissistic abuser or toxic partner. You cannot mold yourself into something they will lovingly accept without further abuse. Your abuser is perhaps physically and emotionally incapable of love as you understand it. It’s called Narcissistic Supply: hurting you feeds them, which feeds the abuse cycle. These are deeply difficult truths to accept. But once you understand what keeps you stuck and distorted, you can shift your energy toward the wonderful things you want in your life; things that give you happiness and abundance.
WHAT MINEFIELD SURVIVAL IS NOT
Minefield Survival Program will never include:
A lecture on why you should leave your relationship. I myself have been in a toxic relationship with a narcissistic abuser. And I fully understand how exhausting, confusing and heart-wrenching it is to even think about leaving. Furthermore, many times it isn’t possible to leave under the circumstances. It’s especially difficult when your wounds are not physical, or you believe everything is all your fault. We will work together to identify the right solution for YOU.
Abuse counseling. I am not a doctor or a psychiatrist. I do not prescribe medication. I approach helping you from a very different place. My clients sort through trauma and heal from their abusive and toxic relationships from the inside out. If you are having a medical or psychiatric emergency, please call your doctor or 911.
OPTIONAL GROUP COACHING
I have a close and confidential group of clients who have gone through, or are going through, what you are experiencing. Upon request, you may join a private group coaching session with others who have traversed narcissistic partners and emotionally abusive relationships.
IF YOU ARE ON THE FENCE
Please click here to read my blog on this topic. Read every word. If you find yourself with tears in your eyes by the end, let’s have a conversation. I want to help you help yourself. I want you to be free.